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11. 缺少笑容——会让别人感觉不舒服，并且会猜想你是否真的愿意逗留在这里。尝试给别人一个真诚的微笑吧，特别是在与他人初次见面的时候。 12. Stepping back when you’re asking for a decision — conveys fear or uncertainty. Stand your ground, or even take a slight step forward with conviction. 12. 在询问决定的时候身体向后退——传递着惊恐和不确定的信息。脚踏实地，或者甚至可以坚定地向前踏一小步。 13. your fingers or holding palms up — looks like a begging position and conveys weakness. 13. 指尖向上或手心朝上——看起来像是一个乞求的姿势，传递着软弱的信息。 14. Standing with hands on hips — is an aggressive posture, like a bird or a dog puffing themselves up to look bigger. 14. 站着的时候双手放在臀部上——这是一个好斗的姿势，就像一只小鸟或小狗鼓吹声势让自己看起来更强大的样子。 15. Checking your phone or watch — says you want to be somewhere else. Plus, it’s just bad manners. 15. 查看手机或手表——意味着你想离开这里到别的地方。再者，这是不礼貌的动作。 So, what should you do? Aim for good posture in a neutral position, whether sitting or standing. Stand with your arms at your sides, and sit with them at your sides or with your hands in your lap. Pay attention so that you naturally hold eye contact, smile, and be yourself. 那么，你该怎么做呢？应该是这样：无论是坐着还是站着的时候，力求保持中立的良好姿势。站着的时候把双手放在身旁，坐着的时候也应如此或者放在大腿上。保持注意力集中这样才能自然地保持眼神交流，微笑和展现自己。
If you discover you have a particular problem with one or two of the gestures on the list, practice by yourself with a mirror or with a friend who can remind you every time you do it, until you become aware of the bad habit yourself. 如果你发现自己有这些肢体语言错误中的一到两个，那么就尝试在镜子面前练习或与一位朋友练习，他可以在你犯这些错误的时候提醒你，直到你自己真正意识到这个不良的习惯为止。
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