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Of course, as you well know, she works in a bank。 当你使用上面的句式,你表达了对对方的尊重,承认了对方的知识和智力。 类似的表达还有,如: As I m sure you know, she works in a bank。 Of course, As I am sure you know, she works in a bank。 6、小心纠正对方的错误 和人沟通,听到对方说错了某个知识点,你该如何指正呢?如果你说:“你傻啊,你怎么犯这样的错误呢”, 你一定会引起对方的不悦。 如何礼貌纠正对方的错误呢? 比如,一个人对你说:“The capital city of the U。S。 is New York”。显然,这人犯了一个知识性错误,在不冒犯对方的前提下,你或许可以做这样指出和纠正那人的错误: I think the capital of the U。S。 is actually Washington。(委婉指出对方的错误) I am sorry, but I think that the capital city of the U。S。 might be Washington, not New York。(先抱歉,然后委婉纠正) New York? Did you say the capital city of the U。S。 is New York?(给人机会纠正自己的错误) New York? I thought the capital city of the U。S。 was Washington。(个人提示并给人机会纠正自己的错误) 7、 勉强表示你不同意 当你不同意对方意见,你最好装作你很想同意对方,但又不得不提出你的个人意见。 考虑下面的情况: 你和同事在早高峰时候要去拜访一个客户。你的同事提议打出租车过去,而你觉得乘坐地铁会更准时一些。你该如何表达你的不同意见呢? 你可以选择的礼貌句式包括如下一些: I don t want to disaagree, but I think … I don t want to complain but I think … I don t want to be difficult but think … I hope you don t mind my saying so, but … I am sorry, but … I am afraid that …。 I d like to agree with you but … I am not sure that is the best idea … Perhaps, it would be better to … It s your choice but … I may be wrong but … 上面的这些句式听起来都蛮客气,随便用一个就会让你的同事觉得你尊重他的意见,虽然你有不同意见,但他也愿意听听。你可以这样说:“Perhaps, it would be better to take subway not taxi, because taking subway should guranteen our punctuality。” (责任编辑:职场达人) |


